It turns out that we are more powerful than we thought

There are many firsts in my life. Before I start, I always think that I can't do it, but after I really do it, I will find that the difficulties in reality are not as difficult as imagined. one part. No matter how difficult things are, as long as we start to do them, the difficulty will become smaller.

During the epidemic, interns from colleges and universities could not come to the unit for internships. The base is facing a busy production season, and manpower shortage has become a top priority. The deployment of internal forces has become necessary. Crab fry is the most important production item of the unit every year. We usually sit in front of the computer and provide them with some "data, money" services. Now let's go into battle with "real knives and real guns". We were somewhat apprehensive. Our main work is to follow the deployment of the base, detect the pH of the pond water every day, and take water samples from time to time.

It is difficult to ride a tiger, and we can only seek a solution. Fortunately, the R&D colleagues explained carefully, let us understand the importance of the work we do, and also taught us how to use the PH meter. It takes 3 hours for us to go back and forth to measure the pH value for the first time. Gradually we discovered some problems. We scoop water alone, and one needs to hold a notebook, a pen and a pH meter while protecting the potassium chloride protection solution on the pH meter. Being in a hurry has become a true portrayal of us. In order to make the measurement recording process more "comfortable", we decided to improve our equipment. We make suggestions, and Sister Xie solves them for us one by one. First of all, Sister Xie specially helped us customize a mesh bag that is convenient to carry the water sample bottle, and according to our requirements, someone polished the soft stopper that can block the mouth of the potassium chloride protective solution bottle. We pierced the notebook ourselves and pierced the rope, so that both the notebook and the pen could be hung around our necks. Sister Xie bought an arm bag so that we can put the PH meter in it. We are not afraid of such strong winds. Compared with the previous situation, which was simply a light load, the back-and-forth measurement greatly shortened the time. Even our R&D colleagues call us talented.

Currently, our work continues. Production is also proceeding in an orderly manner. In Photosynthesis we experienced many firsts. Shrimp fry release, crab fry sales, parking fees, Golden Week sales, Wolong Lake winter catch... Photosynthesis has witnessed many of our firsts. Before we set off, we always thought we would encounter many obstacles. , you will find that the actual difficulties may not be as terrible as imagined, and those obstacles are just imaginary obstacles.

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Water measurement team

We also experience countless unknown moments. Because of the unknown, people are afraid, and the only way to break the fear is to act. Better to explore the depths of the water than to linger and complain all the time. In fact, the biggest difficulty is not that there are challenges, but that we dare not face them. Many times, most of the difficult and fearful things we think about do not happen.

"There is nothing difficult in the world, only those who have a heart." This is true. As long as you have the will to do it, no matter how difficult it is, it can become a small thing. The beauty of life is that you never know what the next second will bring to you. Take action to see more beautiful possibilities.

Finance: Gu Xue

May we go away for half a lifetime and return with courage

On July 26, 2019, "Nezha's Devil Child Comes into the World" was officially released. At the end of 2019, I finally finished watching Nezha as I wished, and I couldn't calm down for a long time. The pandemic hit in 2020, and I watched Nezha again in countless days of anxiety. Although it was the second time I watched it, tears still poured out. Although I am an adult, I still can't control my emotional catharsis.

When I was a child, I watched "Nezha in the Sea", and the most memorable scene is the scene of little Nezha cutting flesh and bones, dark clouds rolling in the gloomy sky, Nezha kneeling to say goodbye to his parents with tears on his face, bitter wind, messy hair, tears all over the sky , These scenes freeze my childhood memories of Nezha, I just feel that this child is so pitiful, and the Dragon King is too hateful. After many years, the naughty little girl who was a child has become a wife and a mother, and Nezha has a state of mind that seems like a lifetime.

That rebellious young man, caught the dragon in the sea, and peeled off the skin; Since birth, he has been cursed with magic pills. He is regarded as a monster, imprisoned and misunderstood. He is a little devil in the eyes of everyone. He learned the skills of self-protection in cruelty: pretending not to care, pretending to be free and easy, pretending to be indifferent, and shouting to the world: I have the final say in whether it is a demon or a fairy... Looking at the lonely little figure , I finally understand that Nezha is just an ordinary person who conflicts in reality, softens in rebellion, and grows up in compromise.

Be free from the shackles of prejudice.

Nezha in the movie is a person who has been misunderstood by the world since birth, and is indifferent and isolated. How to carefully live alone and stubbornly amid the prejudice of the world is the survival proposition faced by Nezha in his childhood. The people of Chentangguan collectively refer to creatures other than themselves as "monsters". In their minds, Nezha, who was different from ordinary people at birth, is a monster; Ao Bing, who saved their lives, is also a monster because of his identity as a dragon.

All my aliens are evil spirits.

The Dragon King said: "The prejudice in people's heart is a big mountain, no matter how hard you try, you can't move it." This is our real world: prejudice always controls us and dominates our view of a person. If you don’t have a stable and decent job; if you have worked for a few years without buying a house or a car; if you are 30 and still not married, have been married for a few years and have not had children; if you are over 50 but still dressed up ; if you are not a star,But she wears gothic makeup, her hair is dyed in granny gray or cherry blossom pink...

Then, you will be treated as an outlier, surrounded, ridiculed, pointed at, and exhorted and taught in earnest. There are always people who like to define other people's lives and judge their futures. But life is our own, and no one can taste the ups and downs for us. We come to this world not to live in the evaluation of others, but to have a life that we have the final say in the process of constantly understanding ourselves. Even if there are all kinds of voices around us, we can still listen to our hearts, choose what our hearts want, and strive to live our most satisfied self. Whether it is a demon or a fairy, you have to say it yourself.

All our lives, we've been waiting for someone to see us. Because it is the reincarnation of the magic pill, Nezha has been feared by the world since he was a child. He has no playmates, and is locked in the enchantment alone.

He sang, "I'm a little monster, free and at ease, killing people without blinking, eating people without salt."

But is he really at ease and at ease?

Whether he's brutal or cynical, it's just the way he wants to attract attention.

He longed for approval in his heart, longing for someone to see his loneliness and helplessness under the manic rebelliousness. In our life, we will meet many people come and go, but we are all waiting unconsciously for someone who can see us. He can see the fragile heart inside through our pretended indifference; He can see the strength we pretend to be, and understand all the difficulties.

Psychological consultant Li Songwei shared an experience. A child suddenly lost his temper and threw things on the floor during a psychiatric consultation. He didn't stop the persuasion, just silently accompany him. The child's emotions became more and more out of control, and when he picked up the glass, he was about to smash it on the ground. However, no sound was heard. The child put the glass back gently, gasping for breath and saying, "I'm sorry". Then he picked up the thing on the ground and put it back in its place. At this time, everyone saw that all the things he threw were indestructible. Because Li Songwei sees and believes that he has the ability to control himself under his extremely out-of-control appearance. At that moment, the child also saw himself and regained the confidence and strength of self-control. When we are seen, we can find a truer and better version of ourselves and learn to love and be loved. It's a lifetime of healing.

It is a sad thing for people to live for themselves and let others decide their own destiny in this life. When Nezha suffered grievances, his parents still comforted him, but Ao Bing has been living under the pressure of "a great responsibility from heaven". The father and the master put all their aspirations on him, "I gave you so much, I gave you the spirit bead, I gave you the ten thousand dragon armor, and your life is not just your own." Hopefully, he has no choice but to be the most perfect tool. Just like those children who become the continuation of their parents' lives, they spend their whole lives trying to fulfill their parents' ideals and glory. It was not until he was awakened by the deafening "Who you are, only you know" when he was dueling with Nezha that he saw his true heart. In our life, it is really too difficult to live for ourselves.

When we are studying, our parents plan which major we choose is better for employment and which school is more famous;

When we entered society, our parents arranged for us to go back to our hometown to take care of us, and we were guaranteed to enter an institution; after the job was stable, our parents carefully selected people to marry for us, and everything was for your own good; what about after marriage? Hurry up and give birth to a child while you are young, and then give birth to a second child without taking a breath.

Too many people are living for the previous generation or the next generation, but they are alone.

Milan Kundera said in "The Unbearable Lightness of Life": "Life often makes us feel hard, and makes us witness countless times that life is twisted and deformed under various pressures." Because of this, we It is more necessary to get rid of the expectations of others and find the true self.

As Chaplin wrote on his 70th birthday: "When I really started to love myself, I realized that all the pain and emotional torture just reminded me to live and not to go against my own heart. "

Chaplin

Milan Kundera

What you do determines who you are.

At first, Nezha felt that he was an alien, so he was very rebellious. In order to encourage him, his parents lied that he was the reincarnation of Lingzhu. As long as he cultivated well, he would be loved by the people. For this ideal, Nezha devoted himself to cultivation and sought the approval of the world. When Shen Gongbao exposed the truth, Nezha learned that he was a magic pill and was destined to suffer a catastrophe, and all his beliefs collapsed in an instant. Nezha has been trapped by other people's eyes all his life, unable to break through the cage of fate. When he no longer insisted on the approval of the world, even if he knew his fate, he had to work hard to save the next city of people, and then he truly became a hero that the people bowed down to.

We often accuse fate, only to find that fate does not even bother to quarrel with us. It just watched us silently, dashing around, looking for answers. Satya said: "We can't rewrite history, but we can rewrite the impact of history on us." No matter what predicament we face, we still have the right to choose and choose to be what we want to be. Even if the world is not worth it, don't let yourself down.

We have always loved each other more than we thought.

As the chief soldier of Chentangguan, Li Jing has eliminated monsters from generation to generation, but his son is a monster, and he has always felt sorry for the people. When Nezha was just born, Li Jing once picked up a big knife and wanted to chop Nezha. Later, because Nezha often caused trouble outside, Li Jing ordered Xiao Nezha to be locked in the mansion. However, when Nezha's "heavenly robbery" was about to arrive, Li Jing sent him to practice at the real person of Taiyi, not to trap him, fearing that he would do evil in the world, but to hope that he would master more skills and be able to live well in the world alive.

It turned out that Li Jing, as a father, had already asked for a life-changing talisman, and decided to exchange his life for his life and die for his son when Tianlei destroyed the Demon Pill. This father, who never speaks of love, is mediating from beginning to end, mediating between prejudice, fate and his son. Beneath the icy face is a burning heart that sacrificed his life for his son.

At Nezha's birthday banquet, Li Jing made a wish: "I hope my son will have a safe life."

Who knows how much unspeakable reluctance and blessings are hidden in this ordinary festive remark. This deep fatherly love awakened the child who pretended to be a devil, and he took the initiative to put on the Qiankun ring and accepted the restraint of himself. At the end of the film, Nezha said "My biggest regret is not being able to kick the shuttlecock with you", which made countless people cry. .

Between us and our father, it seems that there is always more regret than joy. We finally understand his painstaking efforts, but we can no longer talk to him; we finally live to be his pride, but we will lose his embrace forever.

Writer Liu Na said: "The luckiest thing in the world is that in the time allowed by God, in the years when our parents were healthy, after escape and return, quarrel and reconciliation, tears and laughter, we finally understand and do it: even if, We don't live up to the pride of our parents and still deserve a hug." Because, for so long, we've both loved each other more than we thought.

When I was a child, I liked watching cartoons, and the lively pictures were the carefree embellishment of my childhood. It was only when I grew up that I realized that it was all about life. It turns out that many of us are the devil boy. A teenager who experienced wanton rebelliousness, and then in the rest of his life, learned to run while crying, and live a little bit like an adult.

May we, after leaving for half a lifetime, return with bravery.

(Part of the information comes from the Internet)

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